Jeannette Pawula's BACHELOR PAD Blog

Apologies for the delayed blog.. to be honest, I am officially “Bachelored Out” after this last weekend spent in Las Vegas for the Bachelor/ette Party and Wedding between Jesse Csincsak and Ann Leuders.  Really.. I just needed a break from our little reality TV world we live in.  It’s great to escape reality by returning to reality.. (haha yes Pun intended).  As great as it was to see everyone and do it very big.. it was great to go home and return to a life of normalcy after a media invasion and weekend filled of drama between a select few.  This was a time to celebrate and support our friends in a marriage.. not taint the trip with other peoples lingering dramas.  But as I had a little vent there.. the bride and groom were radiant, the wedding and accommodations beautiful, and it was so fun catching up with some really wonderful people there I missed a lot.  I was lucky to be a part.    

Saw Natalie Getz, Nikki Kappke, Elizabeth Kitt, Jesse Kovacs and David Good this weekend from the Pad amongst other Bachie friends.  I met some fun new friends including Vienna,  Jason Mesnik and Molly and got to see my best friends Gina Hamilton and Tara Durr.  Also there and so fun to hang around with were Arthur Wells(AKA ADubb), Brian Westendorf(Big B), David Vargas, Suzie Williams(the sweetest), Adam Duvendeck, Renee Simlak, and the Bradshaws. 

Ok so justifying why my blog was delayed.. (needed a reality TV break).. now on to Mondays Episode.  This show is just vicious.  How can you have a career that is based upon hurting other people?  Are the people on production able to sleep at night knowing they purposely have the ability to destroy people’s integrity?  Those questions that were asked were really hard and I get it.. you want to stir the pot and create drama but my god where do you draw the line?  By the way.. Melissa I think you are beautiful but I don’t get your hosting.  You just stand there!

Gwen – You are one of the most honest and genuine people I have ever met.  Until this episode they didn’t show too much of you but you just aren’t one of the ‘new’ bachie people that comes in with drama all over the place.  I really appreciate your class and integrity on this show and think you came out the classiest so far.  Kiptyn, I give you a lot of credit for not voting Gwen off.  Perhaps she may have been a threat but you recognized she is a good person and you stuck your ground.  I really give you pat on the back for that.  Natalie.. I know you really want a good and stable relationship and that had to hurt.  I think you will find the right guy.. maybe take a break from the bachelor boys and I’ll set u up on some blind dates J.

I guess I was off about Krisily.  She did seem kind of dramatic and weird.  Last episode they made her seem really down-to-earth.  Guess my judgment radar was off.  But I kind of liked Krisily’s exit.  Perhaps she went off a little in frustration but I agreed with a lot of what she had to say.  David Good completely persuaded her to keep Kovacs and her vote was the one that kept her on.  But in the end.. he manipulated her and screwed her by voting against her.  Pretty shady stuff.  Wes.. seemed like he was pretty aloof since Gia left.  Perhaps you should have made more friends in the house?  Nikki is always neutral.. she’s such a good person inside and out.  Really glad I had the chance to hang out with her this weekend.  

Oh my god.. Jesse B you keep getting worse and worse.  My worse date ever was a date with a TV anchor who was a total pig and had me cringing..  after watching Jesse and Peyton’s date I was again cringing.. champagne and vodka?  Picking noses?  Burping?  He must have been super drunk but oh my goodness Peyton.. you handled that really well.  It is not the little kid pull her hair cause you like her syndrome.  Either Jesse B has the mentality of a little kid of he’s just dense.  I heard its density. 

I think it will come down to the power couples.  It was really sweet when Jesse Kovacs opened up to Elizabeth.  Maybe you should continue to be a gentleman to her now that the show has aired?  As gross as it is to watch Kiptyn and Tenley’s relationship blossom.. they seem cute and honest.  It seemed like the show put a lot of pressure on pairing them up.. it’s funny how they can lead you down a path to get what they want.. but it worked and their now a couple.  Ohh good ol tv with their predetermined paths for everyone.  Ok I feel like I am missing some stuff but I can’t recall.. until next week!

Thank you,

Jeannette Pawula